True love has no end...coz it never ends!!!

Just yesterday I recieved a mail from an old dear friend, pouring his heart out after a failed affair, the hurt he is going through and how much next to impossible it would now be for him to put his trust in this socalled love thing.
And is thankful that it got over for good.
Not that I dint understood what he said or what he dint say, but wanted to say.
He dint spoke a single word that I havent heard between a conflict, my head an heart always have.
But it was the question he asked me that really unnerved me...
"Why our so called perfect love never always have a perfect happy ending?"

After pondering over it for an hour or so I tried my best to console him, tried my best to write him a mail that would in some way be able to sooth his pain. But deep down I myself knew what I wrote to him is not even good enuff to convince me, how could I expect it to be of help to him.
I have been hearing so many times...
our love dint ended the way it should have.
He/She is not the kind of person i expected him/her to be...
We have lost the trust we had...
We are no longger on the same wave lenght...

The only conclusions I get to were that...

"True love does not come by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly"…

Love is such a wonderful gift, and never to be taken for granted. Few people are lucky enough to get the person they love.
We all, by nature, is flawed! It's pointless looking for the perfect person; because such a person doesn't exist on this planet at least! No two people are alike and every single one is imperfect. Everyone has his or her faults and peculiarities. Knowing this then, the only way to make love survive and grow and to enjoy it fully is to accept these faults, while remembering at the same time that we ourselves are nowhere near perfect and are probably as 'defective' as the other person!

Perfect smooth sailing is impossible. And if it's happening, it spells big trouble because it points to the fact that one or both partners are making a hell of a compromise to avoid conflict!

"If a person exits one relationship in the hope of entering into a problem-free one next time, then that's very wishful thinking!"

And never ever love some one in the hope of a fairy tale perfect endding. That dont happen, not anymore, not always.
Yes perfect Love has no ending....cause love is endless.
It simply dont end....

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